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Recently I was part of a group picture.
One person out of maybe thirty-one people.
Guess who I looked for first when the picture was sent to me?
Have YOU ever done that?
Not only did I look for myself,
I breathed a sigh of relief that my eyes weren't closed.
Then I did a really embarrassing thing to admit.
I zoomed in.
(Don't you DARE!)
Anyhow...this whole exercise made me realize how self-centered I am.
How quickly I look out for myself.
How much I need the reminder of Philippians 2:1-4:
If you've gotten anything
at all out of following Christ,
if his love has made any difference in
your life,
if being in a community of the Spirit means anything to you,
if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor:
Agree with each
other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends.
Don't push your way to
the front; don't sweet-talk your way to the top.
Put yourself aside,
and help others get ahead.
Don't be obsessed with getting your own
advantage.
Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
(The Message)
I love this and I am posting it to facebook!!
ReplyDeleteGood post..good word...I had to laugh because my husband will always comment on how he looks before he even notices others in the photo!
ReplyDeleteGreat picture...what a true blessing
Oh dear Rebecca how lovely! I do the same and I really never like myself i any pic, but you look fine, friend. I love the group too...and yeah, I zoomed it, lol!
ReplyDeleteHappy Kings Day!
FABBY
Oh, that's nothing. I think everybody does that, I do. I just don't see you as self-centered at all. I love this picture, so sweet, and everyone looks so happy!
ReplyDeleteOh, Rebecca, I love this family photo! And I hope to one day get one just like it when we are all together. Maybe I will make that my goal for Easter or next Christmas when extended family get together.
ReplyDeleteAnd scanning pictures for ourselves, well, I think that's our insecurity coming out, we want to make sure we look at least half-way decent! I know I've ruined so many group shots because of closed eyes, or looking down, or reprimanding a grandchild (now that was one of the worst!).
I do love your message here, and I hope to take it to heart and put it into action! I've been thinking about that so much lately. I have a tendency to feel that whatever I am doing is the MOST IMPORTANT thing at the moment and I expect everyone around me to feel the same way! I have a very serious problem with "ME, MYSELF, and I"!
Love and Prayers,
Eileen
I don't look at that situation as self centered. Although worrying how we appear to others can be misconstrued as self centered, I think it's important that we make a good first impression. Even in a photo we want to make a good impression. I don't think that's self centered of you at all Rebecca. Striving to be your best is part of who you are! We should all be so "Self Centered"!! Love Di ♥
ReplyDeleteIt's not self-centered at all, Rebecca. I zoomed in before you told me not too!!! I love this photo. So glad to see families together in photos. Love, love this.....
ReplyDeleteJackie
I did it, I zoomed in and thought you looked great. What a wonderful message, a reminder all of us can pay/should attention too. Happy New Year my friend....:-)Hugs
ReplyDeleteI love your honesty :) And yes I do /have done that myself.
ReplyDeleteMy son makes us all up into little Lego figures, groups us together, and takes a picture of us. It's better that way. ;D
ReplyDeleteYOUR picture looks great! What a lovely family.
Hi dear Rebecca, I came back again to invite you to visit me, I have a giveaway for the one year of blogging. All you have to do is comment on it, that's it! Lots of hugs,
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